reftable/stack: stop using fsync_component() directly

We're executing `fsync_component()` directly in the reftable library so
that we can fsync data to disk depending on "core.fsync". But as we're
in the process of converting the reftable library to become standalone
we cannot use that function in the library anymore.

Refactor the code such that users of the library can inject a custom
fsync function via the write options. This allows us to get rid of the
dependency on "write-or-die.h".

Signed-off-by: Patrick Steinhardt <ps@pks.im>
Signed-off-by: Junio C Hamano <gitster@pobox.com>

reftable/reftable-writer.h

@@ -62,6 +62,12 @@ struct reftable_write_options {
 	 * negative value will cause us to block indefinitely.
 	 */
 	long lock_timeout_ms;
+
+	/*
+	 * Optional callback used to fsync files to disk. Falls back to using
+	 * fsync(3P) when unset.
+	 */
+	int (*fsync)(int fd);
 };
 
 /* reftable_block_stats holds statistics for a single block type */